Tuesday, September 26, 2006

Perspective

You know its amazing how our perspective is the key to life, no matter what season or trial of life we are in. Can you imagine not being fretful, discouraged, angry ect. with anything in your life.

One common complaint with moms to many is that the work is never done and its a thankless job. This is all very true. Some moms even to just one or two children are so negative and really feel robbed of their "life" due to having had children. What a shame!

Our joy in life and our success as mothers is that we get our perspective straight and no matter how much the advesary tries to make you think otherwise; you KNOW the truth!

The truth that the very next breath that you take is not promised to you, it is a gift. The truth that parents loose children everyday and will never touch their soft faces again on this earth. The truth that every moment that your children and yourself are healthy is a gift that out ways all the rest. Every moment that we have our children at home with us, making messes, and needing their diaper changed is priceless. Why do some parents miss this? They cant wait for the child to be out of diapers, next they cant wait until the child starts school and on and on!

If you had no legs and one day were told that you were receiving the gift of legs for only 24 hours. The only exception is that you must continue to dig a trench the entire time you have your legs. Would you say, "you know what that seems like a lot of work, I think I'll pass on that."
I dought it! You would gratefully dig that trench the whole time, enjoying the legs you are standing on.

You will probably wiggle your toes and bend your knees taking in all the wonderful sensations that you had never known. You will enjoy the ache from having been standing so long. You will soak up and embrace ALL that 24 hrs has in store. The good and the hard and count it all as absolutely wonderful!

Sometimes we get lost in the precious gifts of The Father only to count them as sorrow. We must change our perspective. If you were to leave this earth today would your children know that they were the joy of your life.

Which leads me to my next thought for the day. Children will be more enjoyable if they are trained to act correctly and be a functioning, helpful part of the family. No one likes to be around unruly, disrespectful kids; not even the parents of those kids. Train your children well and they will be a blessing and a joy to you! And realize that one day even though it seems so far off in the distance; that your house will be empty. No more sticky little baby faces to kiss when ever your heart desires. No more shoes to pick up off the floor. Laundry will cease to exist, and you will be in the fall and winter of your life. Enjoy the spring and the summer for those are the seasons that your life's memories are made!

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

What wonderful words and truth you have written out!!!! Mind if I link it from my blog?

Thanks,
Letisha

Audrey said...

Go right ahead.

Audrey

Michelle said...

Very well put, Audrey! I all too often get so bogged down by the little things that I lose my perspective and my joy!! Thanks for the reminder about what is truly important and that all too soon these days will be over!
Michelle

GINA said...

MY SISTER IS ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE THAT YOU SPEAK OF AND ONE OF THESE DAYS SHE WILL SEE WHAT SHE MISSED OUT ON. MY KIDS AND MY FAMILY IS MY LIFE. I MAY COMPLAIN ABOUT THE LAUNDRY SOMETIMES AND IT IS TRUE THAT A WOMANS WORK IS NEVER DONE--BUT I LIKE IT THAT WAY.LOL I KNOW FIRST HAND HOW THESE YEARS CAN PASS WITH RAISING MY NEPHEWS THEY ARE NOW ADULTS THEMSELVES-SEEMS LIKE YESTERDAY THEY WERE LITTLE.

Melanie said...

I definately can use this reminder from time to time. We do get caught up in the daily grind, rather than the treasures we are storing up in heaven. In all too short of time we will be wishing our house was full again of littles. Praying that we will have grandchildren near by, we will want them to be.
Melanie

Oh that there were such an heart in them, that they would fear me, and keep all my commandments always, that it might be well with them, and with their children for ever! Duet 5:29